Same Old Patterns

It’s funny how long my spouse and I can go on arguing about the same things over and over and not even notice the pattern. Last night, once again, my spouse and I had unpleasant words about the temperature. I was cold. My hands were cold, my whole body was cold. I wasn’t quite ready […]

To Give is to Receive

Unresolved childhood experiences often result in unhealthy patterns and attitudes that can taint our relationships in adulthood.

One of my earliest memories is of watching my older brothers and cousins — all boys — play together. I felt left out and unloved. I cried and wailed, “You don’t love me!” Another memory is as a […]